Have you ever experienced that awkward moment when you’re confidently strutting in a lovely straight dress, only to realise that the slit at the back is threatening to rip open? 🥹 Or perhaps you’ve found the perfect skirt, only to discover that it doesn’t have a proper slit or opening, making it difficult to move comfortably?
Skirts and dresses with slits can pose a bit of a challenge for many women. While slits serve a practical purpose in fitted clothing, allowing you to move more comfortably and providing better airflow to keep you cool, they can also be a source of concern when they’re too high or revealing. They can leave you feeling uncomfortable, draw unwanted attention, and may even be considered inappropriate in professional and other formal settings.
As believing women, we’re called to exercise modesty in the way we adorn ourselves (see 1 Timothy 2:9). I imagine you share my desire to find that sweet spot between looking fashionable, dressing functionally, and honouring God in the process. So, how do we enjoy wearing slitted skirts and dresses without worrying about exposing more than we intend to?
Here are a few ideas that I’ve found to be helpful:
Go for Side Slits
If you’re looking for a modest yet practical option, side slits are worth considering. They offer comfort and ease of movement without being overly revealing. What’s more? You can actually see a side slit, unlike one at the back of your skirt or dress. That gives you more control and makes it easier to spot a potential wardrobe malfunction before it becomes a problem!
Choose Below-the-Knee Styles
Wearing skirts and dresses that fall below the knee can be a great way to maintain modesty while enjoying the style and functionality of a slit. A slit that begins around mid-calf provides coverage while allowing you to walk, sit, and move comfortably without compromising your standards.
Try Pleated Slits
Pleated slits, my personal favourite, are a great way to enjoy the functionality of a slit without an actual opening in your dress or skirt. The pleated fabric allows for ease of movement while providing additional coverage, making it a stylish and practical option.
Consider Loose- Fitting Options
Skirts and dresses that fit too snugly can put pressure on the slit, making it more likely to rip. And when the slit is high, that’s even more reason to be careful! Go for pieces that fit comfortably and allow you to move freely.
Flared options can be a flex
I have a personal bias for flared or A-line outfits for a number of reasons, lol. Hear me out! Pencil skirts and dresses can be stylish, but they can also be quite selective. They may not work as well for every body type and can require a little extra styling to achieve the desired look, depending on your shape and fit preferences.
Beyond their versatility, flared styles can also create a more balanced silhouette while offering greater coverage, making them a lovely option when you’re looking to combine style and functionality.
Try layering different pieces
Layering involves mixing and matching different pieces to create a new look. In this case, it would involve wearing your slitted dress or skirt over another piece. That way, there’s no need to worry about the slit, as the piece underneath takes care of that! Layering requires creativity and a willingness to experiment or even step outside your comfort zone, but it can be such a fun option. And hey, you’re the daughter of the Creator of the whole earth, so get those creative ideas flowing! 😉
With these ideas in mind, you can strike a balance between modesty and functionality without sacrificing your style. Whether you’re dressing for the workplace, church, an event, or just everyday life, you can look good, and feel comfortable.
Lastly, remember that this isn’t about do’s and don’ts. Neither is it primarily about what people will or won’t say about your looks. Scripture teaches us to be considerate of others, and that’s part of honouring the Lord too. Ultimately, we want Him to be honoured in everything we do, including how we show up.
Bonus tip: Please carry a brooch or a mini sewing kit with a needle and some black thread in your purse. Slits have a way of ripping at the most unexpected times,😫 and having these handy can help you fix a tear in no time!
I hope you found these helpful!
Let me know in the comments if you try any of them. I’d love to hear how it goes!
Write soon,
Motola.
